restoration
"Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted (Gal. 6:1 NASB)."
Restorative confrontation is a much needed discipline in the church. Often confrontation is either overlooked, allowing fellow believers to run rampant and unaccountable lives, or it is abused, yielding nothing but hostility and antagonism.
One of the keys to biblical restoration is a spirit of gentleness, or humility. Words that flow from a humble heart can cut through much bitterness and pain, and by the Spirit's power, they can melt some of the hardest souls.
As you seek to bring restoration to your relationships in God's church, consider yourself first, making sure your attitude is right and God fearing, then proceed to correct and confront out of a loving heart. Surely, you will often find believers desiring to be reunited to the word of God, fellow Christians, and most importantly our Lord himself.